The poll is for the north to entertain first. All Ireland parties are fine and good in the political landscape, I have no issue with that, co-operation and a closer Ireland is great. What I do have issue with is Ireland (Republic of, according to the football) driving what should be entirely the choice of the people in the north. That's what the Good Friday agreement was and is, and I still remember the day it was announced/agreed when my father called me into the television to say, "History is being made. "
The people in the north have come a long way since it was agreed, and it's up to them to define their future as they wish. It's not up to us—we who have relinquished our claim to the north—to push them into something they are not ready for, don't want to do, and aren't willing to lead in their own right.
To bring up The Troubles and all of what happened then... I have a lot of sympathy for the young fellas and wans growing up in that environment. There were peaceful means of protest and there were violent means. I don't know what it was like to live in that environment so I won't and don't blame anyone who grew up in it for whatever they did. I don't know what I would do under such circumstances myself. I do blame the "better" people. The older people, the educated people, the people pushing and pulling others around. And more than anything I have little sympathy for the people living in comfy Cork for getting involved in violent situations entirely of their own volition when there was no oppression or discrimination impacting them individually driving them to do so. I'd say the same here. We, the established country of Ireland, should not be driving and cajoling the north into action. It's up to them to decide. They're the ones who lived with decades of horrors, not us. It's up to them, and their children, to do what they want to do. And if what they want to do is "nothing at all" we have to accept that too. It's not our decision. It's no longer our "cause." The people of the north's future is entirely their own.