So you know you are a try-hard and won't tell us who you are.
You remind me of those sick lads who chanted about Stephen Bradly's ill son.
They thought it was funny and 'banter'. However, once it goes to court (and it will go to court), everyone will know who they are.
Their family, their friends, their colleagues at work... they will all know what type of people they are.
You and they have much in common, but you hide behind a keyboard.
How brave you are.

PM me your email address there and I'll send you my name.