I know dads of two players who were on extended panel, one still there. Certainly neither would think Meyler would win any awards for communication but neither would be too critical ultimately.
Certainly he settled on about 20 players very early but interestingly 3 of the maybe top 5 all along have been dropped for some of the recent games. View would be that perhaps having a less settled first team might have better for all throughout.
They did botch cuts apparently, cutting a good few players (by email but flagged in advance I think) around easter and then seeming to pretend they never did cut them ehen they needed them for all ireland u16 competitions! They then did a big cut in late summer last year which included those already seemingly cut and a good few others. All done by email. Some good players cut who are doing well now in Celtic Challenge - but to be fair that's inevitable.
He promoted a good few 2008s (this years minors are 2007) which Fraggy didn't really do the previous year, and that made the late summer cut wider than expected. Again though, perhaps learning from Fraggys mistake.
Parents are always going to be disappointed when their kid is cut. Sometimes they just aren't seeing reality. Other times there can be truth in their grievances. Kids progress at different rates and a cut can just happen at the wrong time for their kid. Kids can be played in the wrong position (and one of the dad's I know does say there was little rotation of position from day one - half backs were half backs etc). Even age comes into it, the January birthday v the November or December birthday. It all probably gets amplified by the fact minor is u17 now. When the coaches are dealing with a panel of 60 or even 45 it's hard for them to drill down into such specific issues for each kid. They've got to put the group first.
Anyway, both dads wouldn't grumble much with the top 25 or so he picks (the odd one they disagree with but that's always the way). Nor do they think any cuts etc weren't made bona fide. Sometimes a coach rates you and sometimes he doesn't.
I myself saw them v Limerick and it's a decent team. Fingers crossed they can go all the way. Galway and Tipp now seen as the big competition.