She's killed his career but flatlined her own in the process.
no-one wins is spot on.. seriously destructive stuff. I have a buddy just out the other side of it all - it has destroyed him
the judges version of 'splitting the money' was to give the wife both houses and she is to give my buddy about 35% of the value of the family home. He then owes all of his legal fees, which are colossal, out of that so he is left with a pittance to try restart his life and no chance of being able to buy a home again for now.
People will come on telling me that this isn't possible, and I'd have been one of them if I hadn't been the confidant in this case.