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Work hit me with a curveball today. Advice needed.

Cheers again lads.

I know I come across as needy but my head is just in a bad place right now, so I do appreciate all the advice, support, and tips.

There are so many stories and emotions running through my head and it's hard to put them all into the one place. When I got this job I was in my 20s, moved to Dublin, and lived with my now late grandmother who was so proud of me that she'd keep my business card on the table next to her to show everyone who would come to visit her.

I dunno what she'd think.

Maybe this will all work out.
You're basing your identity around this job. You are more than this position. You have interests, travel experience and education behind you.
Dont get caught up in the moment so much. You will have other jobs which might even prove better
 
Cheers again lads.

I know I come across as needy but my head is just in a bad place right now, so I do appreciate all the advice, support, and tips.

There are so many stories and emotions running through my head and it's hard to put them all into the one place. When I got this job I was in my 20s, moved to Dublin, and lived with my now late grandmother who was so proud of me that she'd keep my business card on the table next to her to show everyone who would come to visit her.

I dunno what she'd think.

Maybe this will all work out.
MOE, I have this theory that humans are programmed to throw their lives in the air every time it feels settled, and if you dont do it often life comes along and does it for you. Be that houses, babies, work, illness or whatever.. you kill yourself to get a house, get in, get settled.. life is finally ok again… make a baby, build an extension etc.. do those, get settled and feck it all in the air again with a new job or another baby

Just accept that life is chaos and then it all seems fine again :)
 
Cheers again lads.

I know I come across as needy but my head is just in a bad place right now, so I do appreciate all the advice, support, and tips.

There are so many stories and emotions running through my head and it's hard to put them all into the one place. When I got this job I was in my 20s, moved to Dublin, and lived with my now late grandmother who was so proud of me that she'd keep my business card on the table next to her to show everyone who would come to visit her.

I dunno what she'd think.

Maybe this will all work out.

A bit needy?

You'd make prize winning artisan bread at a tosser's Farmers Market.
 
Cool. I walk past the dole office on George's Quay on my way to work. I'd be mortified beyond belief to be standing in there myself.

That's no slight on anyone who does that, we are all coming from different directions and situations.

I'm embarrassed to tell people where my first job was when I was 16 and it has never been on my CV or LinkedIn. But part of me wants to change that, just to show people that I've always wanted to work.
Absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about you’ve paid into your PRSI long enough, if anything isn’t it great to be getting something back while you figure out the next move?

Who gives a fuck if someone sees you there, the situation is gonna go the way it goes so just roll with it you’re in a decent position from what I’ve read
 
Absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about you’ve paid into your PRSI long enough, if anything isn’t it great to be getting something back while you figure out the next move?

Who gives a fuck if someone sees you there, the situation is gonna go the way it goes so just roll with it you’re in a decent position from what I’ve read

I reckon the Captains of Cork Industry would stop me at the front door of the South County if they found out I was on social welfare.

Era I don't care. I'm only throwing stuff at the wall and seeing what sticks at this stage.

It'll all be good. I have today hatched a new project with a very well known social media personality (no it's not Bonnie Blue), which will keep me busy for a bit.
 
I reckon the Captains of Cork Industry would stop me at the front door of the South County if they found out I was on social welfare.

Era I don't care. I'm only throwing stuff at the wall and seeing what sticks at this stage.

It'll all be good. I have today hatched a new project with a very well known social media personality (no it's not Bonnie Blue), which will keep me busy for a bit.
Cool. I've asked him for his Insta handle, but you know what Greedy's like. You might stick it up there for the rest of us*.


*No, de_MangeY, I'm not referring to Greedy's missus, although that has given me an idea...
 
Jesus MOE, you're overthinking this massively.. surely the best part of getting older is not giving a fuck what everyone else thinks about you or what you are doing/have done? Because life experience tells you that very little is exactly as it seems, and behind every person and possession there is layers of all sorts of stuff that make that up.

Anyone out there picking other peoples lives apart like you are imagining is not someone whose own life is fulfilled, who cares what they think?
Exhibit A

Look at this fucking twonk.. driving around in a classic 911 while he owes €28m, and been born with a solid silver spoon firmly in his gob

Paddy McKillen jnr, with debts of €27.7m, applies for personal insolvency arrangement​

Co-founder of Press Up hospitality group has just €270 in his bank account, court hears​

Paddy McKillen jnr is 'firmly insolvent', the court heard. Photograph: Collins Photos



Barrister Keith Farry, appearing for personal insolvency practitioner Eugene McDarby, successfully applied for the certificate for the businessman, co-founder of the Press Up hospitality group.

Farry told Judge Michael Quinn that McKillen jnr, of Torquay Road, Foxrock, Dublin, was “firmly insolvent” and had liabilities of €27.7 million. He has just €270 in his bank account, Farry said.

McKillen jnr, who was not in court, owes €2.9 million to his wife Edel McKillen and €1.8 million to his mother Maura McKillen, the court heard.

McKillen jnr’s liabilities total €27,710,644.51 while he has assets of just €143,295.72, according to documents provided to the court.

Farry said McKillen jnr’s wife gives him €300 per week for his personal expenses, while she pays for all the household expenses, “the light, the heat, the food and all the rest”.

Almost €735,000 is owed on McKillen jnr’s mortgage, which is in arrears of €18,995.92, according to documents. The property, which was valued at €2.1 million when it was bought in 2014, is not deemed to be an asset as it is held on trust.

Farry said the majority of McKillen jnr’s assests – some €105,000 – relate to cars he owns, including a 1986 Porsche 911 Carrera Targa worth €45,000, a 2021 Volkswagen Golf worth €35,000 and a 1983 BMW 6 Series valued at €25,000.

McKillen jnr has a personal Revolut account with a balance of €270.08 and a Revolut cryptocurrency account with a balance of €193.79, according to the documents. The rest of his assets relate to stocks, shares and art, including five Richard Gormley paintings valued at €15,000.

An account he has with Bank of Ireland is overdrawn by €345, according to the files.

A number of McKillen jnr’s business debts were also disclosed to the court: he owes €8.9 million to Jonc Ltd, which is based in the Isle of Man, €8.7 million to Cabriz Finance Ltd in Monaghan and €2.3 million to Herbert Street Property Finance in Dublin, among other debts.

The High Court last month rejected McKillen jnr’s bid to set aside a bankruptcy summonsover an alleged €2.1 million debt, but adjourned the case for six months.

In a judgment on August 13th, Judge Liam Kennedy dismissed McKillen jnr’s arguments to strike down lender Herbert Street Property Finance’s summons, finding that he had not established that the summons was an abuse of process, and was brought for “an ulterior motive”.

A number of Press Up group restaurants and venues recorded six-figure losses in the year before London-based lender Cheyne Capital took over the group from McKillen jnr and his business partner Matt Ryan.

Cheyne Capital, a long-standing finance partner of Press Up, which has since rebranded the chain as Eclective, took control of the hospitality group as part of a debt-for-equity swap in September 2024.

Press Up had set up many hospitality businesses in Dublin, including the Stella Cinema, a chain of Wowburger restaurants and several cocktail bars.

In a statement, McKillen jnr pointed to the pandemic and the subsequent inflation and sharp interest rate rises that followed, with “limited access to traditional commercial banking in Ireland” forcing many group businesses with which he was involved to borrow at higher cost from alternative lenders.

He said that restructuring programmes had “safeguarded all these businesses, protected thousands of jobs, and ensured many of these iconic venues have a long-term future”.

“For me personally, insolvency is now unavoidable,” he said. “Certain alternative lenders have pursued me personally in the courts for personal guarantees that I gave in support of company debts and these liabilities outweigh any assets.”
 
Exhibit A

Look at this fucking twonk.. driving around in a classic 911 while he owes €28m, and been born with a solid silver spoon firmly in his gob

Paddy McKillen jnr, with debts of €27.7m, applies for personal insolvency arrangement​

Co-founder of Press Up hospitality group has just €270 in his bank account, court hears​

Paddy McKillen jnr is 'firmly insolvent', the court heard. Photograph: Collins Photos'firmly insolvent', the court heard. Photograph: Collins Photos
That's Alan Carr, Bro.
 
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