Sorry Chara.
My wife is still very raw about her dad dying. Her mum would be a very stoic person, but it's unbelievable how much she has changed since he died. She's just completely lost. She just did a weekend with friends in Bordeaux, because that was the last place they went together.
The wife is going out and spending a lot of time with her since, I haven't even spoken to her since Friday. I find it tough too as I don't really have friends I can call and go for a coffee with, so I either go to the pub or else sit at home alone. Thats why coming onto the PROC and talking about things like Tommy Fleming is comforting