Stuff that grinds your gears

[Heraldo]

I thought of my Mam yesterday and then realised even though it's three years this Summer. My father is going deaf unfortunately

Sorry to hear about your dad stuffy

My mum will be two years gone this July, I don’t think I’ve properly grieved. Sometimes I think something is wrong with me in that respect.
I think about her everyday, without fail.

 

[Great-Bit-O-Stuff]

Sorry to hear about your dad stuffy

My mum will be two years gone this July, I don’t think I’ve properly grieved. Sometimes I think something is wrong with me in that respect.
I think about her everyday, without fail.

I'm not sure what to suggest there. Crying does help but everyone is different. Don't be afraid to get angry either. Just don't hurt anyone!!

 

[Matlock]

Sorry to hear about your dad stuffy

My mum will be two years gone this July, I don’t think I’ve properly grieved. Sometimes I think something is wrong with me in that respect.
I think about her everyday, without fail.

Remembering her is a form of grieving. There isn't any one right way to do it.

 

[Great-Bit-O-Stuff]

That's lovely actually, memory....

 

[Heraldo]

Remembering her is a form of grieving. There isn't any one right way to do it.

That’s true and I like the remembering is a way of grieving.

 

[Heraldo]

I'm not sure what to suggest there. Crying does help but everyone is different. Don't be afraid to get angry either. Just don't hurt anyone!!

I don’t cry often but I get you and I’m angry a lot of the time haha

Well in relation to my mum, I’m angry at Parkinson’s disease, an awful way to go

 

[Chara021]

My mother was diagnosed with Cancer two days ago. She's 90 yrs old. Had a family meeting about how we are going to manage things after she comes out from respite. We don't know how long she has left. We are thinking very little given everything we know.
I know from talking to people this is a difficult time for families and as much as we have already been doing our rota minding her etc this is coming to the next stage now. It's a bit surreal. We kinda knew it was maybe coming but now that it's here it hard to get our heads around it. One step at a time I think and palliative care hopefully will keep her comfortable. That's the main thing.

 

[Great-Bit-O-Stuff]

I'm sorry to hear that. It's never easy

 

[Chara021]

I'm sorry to hear that. It's never easy

Thanks Stuffy.

 

[omar]

My mother was diagnosed with Cancer two days ago. She's 90 yrs old. Had a family meeting about how we are going to manage things after she comes out from respite. We don't know how long she has left. We are thinking very little given everything we know.
I know from talking to people this is a difficult time for families and as much as we have already been doing our rota minding her etc this is coming to the next stage now. It's a bit surreal. We kinda knew it was maybe coming but now that it's here it hard to get our heads around it. One step at a time I think and palliative care hopefully will keep her comfortable. That's the main thing.

I'm very sorry to hear that. Try and take care of yourselves too. It's not an easy situation. Sure God love her.