Stuff that grinds your gears

[sigourney's knickers]

Why is this blank?

 

[MerchantOfEnnis]

My father in law has decided he doesn't want to continue his chemotherapy.

It's a fairly devastating turn, he's been doing so well and things were looking up.

I don't know what's next. I also want to state that I don't post stuff like this because I want attention, I just don't have many places to say this stuff out loud when I need to.

Ultimately it's his decision and ultimately if the side effects of the treatment are so bad despite it seeming to be doing good job, he's decided to not put himself in more pain on the road to the inevitable.

It's just awful, and so so so so so sad.

I make no apologies for posting this. Call me an attention seeker all you want, but I've no one else to talk to.

 

[sigourney's knickers]

My father in law has decided he doesn't want to continue his chemotherapy.

It's a fairly devastating turn, he's been doing so well and things were looking up.

I don't know what's next. I also want to state that I don't post stuff like this because I want attention, I just don't have many places to say this stuff out loud when I need to.

Ultimately it's his decision and ultimately if the side effects of the treatment are so bad despite it seeming to be doing good job, he's decided to not put himself in more pain on the road to the inevitable.

It's just awful, and so so so so so sad.

I make no apologies for posting this. Call me an attention seeker all you want, but I've no one else to talk to.

I ain't gonna blow smoke up your arse.


It is difficult your dilemma.

You want a talk.


Talk.

 

[Great-Bit-O-Stuff]

My father in law has decided he doesn't want to continue his chemotherapy.

It's a fairly devastating turn, he's been doing so well and things were looking up.

I don't know what's next. I also want to state that I don't post stuff like this because I want attention, I just don't have many places to say this stuff out loud when I need to.

Ultimately it's his decision and ultimately if the side effects of the treatment are so bad despite it seeming to be doing good job, he's decided to not put himself in more pain on the road to the inevitable.

It's just awful, and so so so so so sad.

I make no apologies for posting this. Call me an attention seeker all you want, but I've no one else to talk to.

I was in hospital with women who had cancer. I saw them go for the their treatments and heard their stories. One of them got the all clear and went home. Others weren't so lucky.
If you said before that it's terminal maybe he just wants to enjoy his time left. Hope you stay strong during this time and post what you want

 

[fed up]

My father in law has decided he doesn't want to continue his chemotherapy.

It's a fairly devastating turn, he's been doing so well and things were looking up.

I don't know what's next. I also want to state that I don't post stuff like this because I want attention, I just don't have many places to say this stuff out loud when I need to.

Ultimately it's his decision and ultimately if the side effects of the treatment are so bad despite it seeming to be doing good job, he's decided to not put himself in more pain on the road to the inevitable.

It's just awful, and so so so so so sad.

I make no apologies for posting this. Call me an attention seeker all you want, but I've no one else to talk to.

Don't give a shit about what other people think dude. Anyone that's observed loved ones suffer like this understands exactly where you're coming from.

I wish him a better quality of life with the time he has left with you all now and I'd be almost certain that was one of the factors behind his decision.

Thoughts with you all at this difficult time.

 

[Meridian]

My father in law has decided he doesn't want to continue his chemotherapy.

It's a fairly devastating turn, he's been doing so well and things were looking up.

I don't know what's next. I also want to state that I don't post stuff like this because I want attention, I just don't have many places to say this stuff out loud when I need to.

Ultimately it's his decision and ultimately if the side effects of the treatment are so bad despite it seeming to be doing good job, he's decided to not put himself in more pain on the road to the inevitable.

It's just awful, and so so so so so sad.

I make no apologies for posting this. Call me an attention seeker all you want, but I've no one else to talk to.

I have to say I respect that man's logic , all that is being achieved is delaying what is going to happen us all regardless.

Post away Ennisy, you are not an attention seeker.

 

[sigourney's knickers]

I ain't gonna blow smoke up your arse.


It is difficult your dilemma.

You want a talk.


Talk.

Please talk.

 

[Nollaig O Muracu]

My father in law has decided he doesn't want to continue his chemotherapy.

It's a fairly devastating turn, he's been doing so well and things were looking up.

I don't know what's next. I also want to state that I don't post stuff like this because I want attention, I just don't have many places to say this stuff out loud when I need to.

Ultimately it's his decision and ultimately if the side effects of the treatment are so bad despite it seeming to be doing good job, he's decided to not put himself in more pain on the road to the inevitable.

It's just awful, and so so so so so sad.

I make no apologies for posting this. Call me an attention seeker all you want, but I've no one else to talk to.

Sorry to hear that MOE. I've known a few people who made that choice. Just have to respect their decision whilst being heartbroken over it. Not much else you can do.

And post whatever the fuck what you want fella. If it helps to get it off your chest, that's good. Far better than bottling it all up and then have it hit you like a train.

 

[Cormac]

My father in law has decided he doesn't want to continue his chemotherapy.

It's a fairly devastating turn, he's been doing so well and things were looking up.

I don't know what's next. I also want to state that I don't post stuff like this because I want attention, I just don't have many places to say this stuff out loud when I need to.

Ultimately it's his decision and ultimately if the side effects of the treatment are so bad despite it seeming to be doing good job, he's decided to not put himself in more pain on the road to the inevitable.

It's just awful, and so so so so so sad.

I make no apologies for posting this. Call me an attention seeker all you want, but I've no one else to talk to.

I lost my mam to cancer but Jesus did she fight like a demon right until the bitter end which sounds admirable and I suppose it was but it made it very difficult for the rest of us. Even in the last few days when she was in hospice she was in complete denial saying "she was going to beat it".
It was very difficult seeing someone you love like that not being at peace with what was about to happen.
I made a promise to myself after that that if I ever find myself in the same position, I won't put my loved ones through the same thing. I will absolutely fight as admirably as she did while there is a fight to be fought but when there is zero chance, I hope I'll have the strength to accept it, for my loved ones sake.

 

[King Silkbeard]

My father in law has decided he doesn't want to continue his chemotherapy.

It's a fairly devastating turn, he's been doing so well and things were looking up.

I don't know what's next. I also want to state that I don't post stuff like this because I want attention, I just don't have many places to say this stuff out loud when I need to.

Ultimately it's his decision and ultimately if the side effects of the treatment are so bad despite it seeming to be doing good job, he's decided to not put himself in more pain on the road to the inevitable.

It's just awful, and so so so so so sad.

I make no apologies for posting this. Call me an attention seeker all you want, but I've no one else to talk to.

Sorry to hear that Merchant talk all you like that is what this place is for.