MerchantOfEnnis
Full Member
There's quite a lot of people like that.
I do often think about how potentially easier my life and stress free of bills would be if I was on the dole getting hand outs etc.
Look MOE not being condescending as I know sometimes context can be misinterpreted through text, this is just a speed bump for you try remain as positive as you can. You do have a fair interest and understanding of the hospitality sector - given previous experiences could you see yourself going in Management be it bar/club or hotel? You'd be a great asset to whoever does snap you up. I don't know you outside of you posting anonymously here but as I said your interest and understanding of the sector, as the saying goes do something you love and you'll never work a day in your life.
In theory I'd love to have my own place. The dream is to have my own pub in a certain European capital, but having done a good bit of research and having had discussions with people in the industry there, it's an uphill battle. Lads are operating off 11% margins if they're lucky, and you absolutely have to not just do food, but good food, and good chefs are expensive. You also have to pay staff for 14 months a year (they get a double month before summer and before Christmas, which is unreal if you're a worker. Less so if you're the one paying wages).
In Ireland I'd be up for taking on a place but I'm really picky with locations and the type of place I'd want to be involved in, and who I'd want to be involved with.
If I'm being totally honest I'd be working in a bar right now happy out was it not for the fear of who comes in every time the front door opens. I was involved in an incident when I worked in a bar in town during which someone was nearly beaten to death, and I was dragged through the legal system as a witness. I never worked a shift on my own again after that night, and ultimately it was the beginning of the end of my time in the hospitality industry. If someone of a certain group came up to me now and ordered a pint I think I'd just freeze. I saw my favorite band in Dublin the night before it happened, and I have no recollection of the gig. The whole memory was just knocked out of my head.
If I could pick a career out of the sky right now it'd be something hospitality or tourism related, ideally promoting Cork, or any part of Ireland really. I'm certainly not above working behind a bar - it's a class job and one where you can really express yourself if you put your heart into it, but I can't see myself ever being comfortable behind a bar on my own again, even 10 years since that all happened.


