Sorry that's pure bullshit.I guess they do sometimes and it's wrong. The kids make up their own minds in the end anyway once they are old enough.
If a kid has been kept away from the dad and poisoned against them for 18 years you never get that time back.
Sometimes it's a just decision but most of the time it's the woman being a vindictive cunt and using the child as a weapon against the man.
Luckily enough it never happened to me. I don't think I could live if mornings like today where the kids brought in cold cooked breakfast and homemade cards had been taken away from me.