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Coaching in youth sports

I've seen various posts in other threads touching on topics to do with youth coaching, and I thought it might be interesting to have a dedicated thread

To start with, I'll quote from a very interesting post from peopleluas on the Cork Footballers thread:

"Remember when we as children played when we were young. The neighbouring children would gather together somewhere (in the city or town it might have been some green area, in the country it was often the field of some farmer parent of one of the children). We might have hurleys, and a sliotar (often lost), or a football. We might play some form of hurling, or football, or soccer, or indeed rounders, or we might play some chasing game, or whatever. And we didn't arrange by age - we just grouped up and played with whoeever we wanted to play with. And we didn't have adults schooling us on how to play better, praising us for playing well, by implication critiquing us for playing poorly - we didn't have that burden. We learned how to play, sometimes we copied skills we'd seen older players or adults use at matches or on TV. We did whatever we wanted to. And we imagined ourselves scoring for Cork. And we enjoyed it - because of whoever or whatever designed young mammals of all species to learn best by just determining their own play.

We need to supply the environment where children can self-organize themselves to do all that, so that like you said they are not sick of all the sport-schooling by the time they are 15. Supply a safe environment, and hold back on schooling them. We are failing miserably in that, and to be honest the impacts of our failure are a lot more than just whether they are good footballers or hurlers when they grow up."

I'm sympathetic to some of this. It's a great idea for youth coaching, especially with younger children (say up to the age of ten), to involve a lot of what peopleluas describes: children self-organising and playing away among themselves. But I do think we should also leave room, even when children are that young, for a little bit of 'sport-schooling' - introducing specific techniques and helping them with technical challenges (e.g., soloing in football, jab-lifting in hurling).

It's also worth keeping in mind how children acquire other skills, apart from either sports or in formal schooling. My wife teaches music, and while she does have organised play for younger children, there's a basic set of skills that are very hard to avoid teaching, and which are v hard to teach except in a structured manner (think of playing chords, or learning how to move smoothly from one chord to the next). An older child (again, ten or older, and sometimes younger) will often want to play some specific pieces, but even there it will be difficult for them to do so simply by playing in a completely unstructured way.

There are other specific things which could be said in response to peopleluas's post (e g , the changing physical environment in which children are now raised, and changing attitudes among parents). But I reckon that's enough for a first post.
 
I coached soccer up here in county wicklow for over 10 years .alongside another lad we coached from u7 up to u17.
At the younger ages it was competitive at 7 a side but we always insisted on giving everyone in the squad half a game every week.
It didnt sit well with some parents as they were more interested in their little lads winning medals but it worked for us overall.
So called weaker players gained confidence from playing and that aspect was actually great from a personal point of view.
Still meet some of these lads now in their 30's locally , some still playing ball but most say they had great fun back then and made and kept friendships from then.
The competitive side can't and shouldn't be the be all and end all of coaching , likewise its important to not molly coddle kids too much , loosing is as much a part of life as winning.
What is important is to have the correct structures and environment to let kids have a chance to do their best.
 
No doubt there should be far more unstructured sport for kids! Games down the park etc.

It's not good that much of the only sport kids have is organised competitive sport.

However, if you join a competitive sporting organisation, at some stage that's what it's going to become and parents should understand this.
 
Stop ffs. Huge drama in my own GAA coaching group this week with players missing.

The local soccer club is going well and the same age group in soccer are going well on top of their league with 3 games this week.

GAA coaches snapping over lads being missing. Between soccer and gaa they would have had been out 7 days this week.

I’m happy out that lads are playing sport at all tbh. Cancelled training this morning as it was clashing with a soccer game. Had to politely tell my co-selectors to calm the fuck down over it.
 
There are other specific things which could be said in response to peopleluas's post (e g , the changing physical environment in which children are now raised, and changing attitudes among parents). But I reckon that's enough for a first post.

For me, this point by @Killyoursons identifies the nail to be hit on the head.

My post in another thread, which @Killyoursons quoted, wasn't really expecting that underage sports coaches could solve what I see as a problem in at a lot of the world. Of course everybody can do their bit, but I see it as a wider societal problem - globally, genuine play time has been massively reduced for children, at least over the past 80 years (and probably for longer in areas of the world that were industrialized before then). I think there are psychological impacts from that reduced play time.

To me it isn't really the job of specific sports coaches to fix that. I think it's much bigger than that.

Think of all the effort we put into the physical well being of our children. Not only improved health care, a massive focus on physical safety, but we also put a lot of effort into nipping problems in the bud with vaccinations, regulation and awareness of food ingredients (especially for babies), etc. I think if the same understanding existed of the importance of hours practically everyday playing at whatever the children want to play at (with of course safety guardrails), then we would change societally and politically to solve this problem.

Massively massively easier said than done.

p.s. Obviously I'm being a massive amateur psychologist here - and that is fraught with danger. It's just that my gut feeling is that there's a lot we don't understand about ourselves, and that if children naturally play, then it is very likely that there's a very significant benefit to it.
 
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Some excellent thoughtful contributions so far from @Killyoursons and @peopleluas

I'm mostly posting to keep the thread well bumped because these posts deserve some traction.

I agree on the loss of free play.

I'm not as experienced a coach as either of you from the sounds. I've been at it five years at the GAA mostly started as a post covid desire to get eldest exercise and three years at Athletics because I've been involved with a club for a years.

I do my best to make training fun, you're mostly and entertainer at the age the kids i coach are but still I reckon the bits of training the kids enjoy most are the 20 mins of fuck acting about before and afterwards. I hate when kids are bundled into cars and off to the next thing

My fella can't kick ball out of his way but I was secretly delighted he could climb the posts and get up onto the crossbar when the none of the "good" kids could manage it and a little disappointed I had to nix the backflip competition onto the high jump mats from another precariously stacked HJ mat when he brained himself.

Instagram can be the greatest tool and the greatest curse for coaching. it's great to get ideas and throwaway games that you can give a spin and chuck if they don't work. On the other hand Parents routinely enough send me clips of "should I do this with little jimmy" which is invariably some athletic American kid who has been coached 1;1 for the vid "make your kid fast with these drills" type stuff which are grand but give a false reality. Those drills work if you do them precisely and you need to stacking years and years of them becuae they nudge you in the right direction is all. Try doing it with a group of 30 kids. Half of whom can't tie their lace, a quartet of whom don't want to be there and the rest are scheming to get back to the High JP mat braining contest.

you're better off embracing the chaos. All the coaching courses are planning and prep and having all your Cones laid out. Most kids rather having the Cones on their head. Don't stress too much use Cones to keep them away from annoying other groups and particularly for the warm up let them move as freely as you can allow.

The point about music instruction is good too. you can't get away from the technical aspects of coaching but that's okay. Kids (and adults) love seeing progress at whatever it is they're doing. Don't shy away from it but also don't make it your world.

I wouldn't say I was a reluctant Coach, I was glad to lend a hand. I have benefitted from volunteerism my whole life, Indeed my Dad coached a bit too so I was copying from him really and was happy to give back. But I did not expect to enjoy it as much as i do..Sure its a pain on the hole at times but seeing the kids (particurlarly my own kid) grow and enjoy themselves is very rewarding
 
Stop ffs. Huge drama in my own GAA coaching group this week with players missing.

The local soccer club is going well and the same age group in soccer are going well on top of their league with 3 games this week.

GAA coaches snapping over lads being missing. Between soccer and gaa they would have had been out 7 days this week.

I’m happy out that lads are playing sport at all tbh. Cancelled training this morning as it was clashing with a soccer game. Had to politely tell my co-selectors to calm the fuck down over it.
Soccer should be finished, pisstake of a season.
 
Interesting thread, I have started one or two on coaching over the years but they usually fizzled out quickly enough.

Peopleluas - what do you propose this training/play time would look like? I suppose I ask because watching my own kids grow up (13 and 14 y/o now) has been an interesting study if nothing else, and I wonder if you are projecting your childhood and memories of good times on to them and hoping it would work, because it did for you? I love the idea of kids playing on the street, and did everything I could to make it happen for mine, but we were always rowing against the tide at the same time because screens and online games have gripped the attention of most kids, and parents happily ignore it while they say the opposite.

I moved into a street when my kids were maybe 3 and 4 years old. There was a few young families and lots of older people. I’d go out on the street with mine kicking a ball around. After a few weeks some of the other kids started to emerge so I’d get the good old fashioned game of soccer across the street going most evenings. Myself and another dad on the other side didnt care about the ball hitting the cars so our pillars were the goals even though it made the pitch diagonal, and footpaths to be negotiated! For a few years we’d have 8 or 10 kids of all ages on the game, boys and girls. The older people on the street loved it, loads commented on how nice it was to hear kids playing again

Then we progressed to playing on the green because the road was too narrow really as they got bigger. The children made ‘kids team’ and they’d play the adults. We bought a few goals and they made jerseys out of T-shirts they bought cheap and drew strips on with markers and numbers on the back, I even got them crests made to sew on at a stupid cost but who cares. National anthem at the start of every game with the kids all linked in a line! And then an hour of running around trying to make sure every one of them got a goal :)

By 10/11 years old the group started to get smaller again as kids would stay at home playing CPU games instead of coming out and then it fizzled out completely. That coincided with their teams in the GAA and soccer clubs becoming more structured though so it was a natural enough transition again.

All I’m really saying I suppose is that this stuff is probably far more likely to happen in the home setting that a club setting, and maybe its not about one or the other? At the same time my kids were running around on the street they were also down in the club training and playing games in a more structured way, and they loved that too



I ended up getting involved at the GAA club also so have brought the team through to U14 now with a group of others. I will be taking a hurling session tonight and I’ll have about 35-40 at it. That group will be kids in the Dub Academy all of the way down to kids who can just about execute the basics, and everything in between. I dont think there is a magic formula at this stage as in there I have everything from a driven group playing at the very top level to a Division 5 team who love playing but dont want the 100 mile an hour physical stuff, and a Division 11 team which is like a parallel universe. The session has to be structured, and a load of lads messing will just disrupt the entire group so I suppose we try to have a nice atmosphere for them all but at the same time try to make sure that we are doing something worthwhile in every session to bring them along.

In the end, I always say to the boys that the aim in our club/team is to build a group of friends they will have for life and look out for each other. If we end up with a decent contingent of them still playing as adults in the club, and having a drink together in the club bar afterwards at any level at all we have succeeded
 
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