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Old 09-07-2008, 06:00 PM
noah noah is offline
 
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Hey... just looking for backup here
If you just recently started seeing someone and then they just drop a bomb on you that they want to have an open relationship. If you're someone who just cant do that is it best to just walk away and let that person go? I mean they havent cheated (yet) but I just cant even grasp why an open relationship is on the table! Why bother being with someone at all if you wanna live a single life and f**k around.
Im going to be a prick about this and just ignore this person from now on.. not answering texts, no emails, no calls... nada!
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Old 09-07-2008, 06:08 PM
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I have no respect for anyone who can contemplate dealing with a problem by means of any form of silent treatment. [S]he's better off without you.
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Old 09-07-2008, 06:13 PM
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Well yes it is awful and I know how it feels but what else can I do? Pick a huge fight and demand she stay with me and only me! I dont have the right to do that. I just dont understand why she wants to be with other people when shes meant to be in a 'relationship' with me. Id be mortofied! no way.
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Old 09-07-2008, 06:13 PM
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I have no respect for anyone who can contemplate dealing with a problem by means of any form of silent treatment. [S]he's better off without you.

What she said.

Find a backbone (Boots may have a '3 for 2' on) and tell them that you're not comfortable/happy with the suggestion, and think it's best to call an end.

Each to their own, like, but be an adult about it.
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Old 09-07-2008, 06:13 PM
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Now I'd agree with you in the point that why be in a relationship with someone if they want an open relationship but to just not bother replying is a bit harsh, I wouldn't go as far as trasna but thats her perogative. If you feel more comfortable cutting contact then thats up to you but its probably best just to say that, and hen ignore texts, calls, emails etc
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Old 09-07-2008, 06:15 PM
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Ok... Ill send her a message later on saying that and leave it.
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Old 09-07-2008, 06:16 PM
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Its bet to end it now then put up and let it eat away at you. Plenty more fishies as they say, best of luck and goodnight
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Old 09-07-2008, 06:39 PM
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Ok... Ill send her a message later on saying that and leave it.
Be aware though that she'll be straight out shaggin'
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Old 09-07-2008, 06:48 PM
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Old 09-07-2008, 06:48 PM
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I agree with those who say that you should tell her that you're not up for that kinda shebang and toodle-oo. Then you can cut the contact.
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